Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.
Have you ever felt a deep longing to do something, but fear held you back?
I’ve always wanted to live a simple life on a beautiful tropical island. I tried it once with my husband when we were young. We loved it so much that I wanted to try it again with our kids. I wanted to immerse them in the peace and beauty of nature, to nurture an appreciation for the little things in life. That was my dream.
Then the Great Recession hit. It was a time of stress and sickness, a time of loss. But somewhere deep inside me a glimmer of light flickered in the form of a feeling, a craving, a question:
Why can’t we live our dreams?
The more I thought about it, the lighter I felt. Then it hit me…
We’d already sold our house and most of our possessions. Why not Go with the Flow? Why not sell it all?
Why not sell it all and live our tropical island dream with the kids?
But I had to sell the idea to my pragmatic husband first. I needed a pitch, an angle, a hook. Hmmm… What could it be? What was my hook?
Hook. That was it! Fishing was my hook.
You see my husband, Brian, is an obsessed saltwater fly fisherman. For him, casting a fly to a tailing bonefish on a shimmering, tropical flat is a potent stress buster, a powerful form of meditation.
I had my hook. Now all I had to do was cast out my line. The conversation went something like this…
“I was thinking…”
“How would you like to live in a place where you could fish for bonefish every day?”
“There are no bonefish here.”
“Yes, I know.” Pause. “But what if we lived in a place where there are bonefish? Somewhere hot and tropical with beautiful, crystal-clear flats?”
“We can’t afford it.”
“But what if I have a way to afford it? “
Direct eye contact.
“Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz…” I could almost hear the reel scream.
That was the short version of my pitch. Of course there were many other conversations, but generally the whole process was easier than I thought.
Instantly the energy shifted. Instead of serious resignation and a sense of defeat, we felt an almost child-like excitement. A spark ignited. The spark of adventure.
Three months later we packed eight bags, swapped our cell phones for fly rods and moved to a tiny, tropical island in the Bahamas. It was then that I realized:
Loss can lead to living your dreams.
Change your attitude. Change your life.
So if you really crave something, cast away and see if you can catch it. Don’t spend your life wondering… what if? Don’t let regret rule.
You really can live your dreams. It’s all up to you.
Live light and live happy.