“Sometimes your joy is the source of your smile, but sometimes your smile can be the source of your joy.”
Did you know most people you meet sum you up in three seconds? Three seconds for a first impression! That’s all it takes. Maybe less.
So what can you do in three seconds to help people see you as the limitless, Divine soul you really are?
You can smile.
Power of a Smile
When we first moved to the Tiny Island (see my About page) I realized the true power of a smile. Zooming around in our golf cart, we always made a point to smile and wave at everyone we passed. It was easy. During those first few weeks we were so besotted with our new island home that our faces were fixed in euphoric perma-smiles.
But even when our initial bliss faded a little, we still made an effort to smile and wave at everyone, even if they didn’t return the gesture – especially if they didn’t return the gesture. I told myself that even if someone scowled back at me, perhaps I helped him or her to smile on the inside.
All that smiling paid off. Within days, we earned the label “friendly”. The locals spread the word, and before we knew it, people would smile at us as we approached, even if they hadn’t met us yet. They went out of their way to help us. Life seemed to be on our side.
The same principle applies in the Outside World. Sometimes you may never see the person you smile at again. But that’s OK. You’ve sent a ripple of joy out into the world. And just like the ripple in a pond, it will grow exponentially.
If smiling doesn’t come easy for you, if you’re shy and find it difficult to smile at a stranger, you are not alone.
Here are some Tips to Help you Smile:
- Be grateful: In every moment focus on something you can be grateful for. It might be as simple as the fragrance of jasmine on a warm spring day, a butterfly floating by, or a warm coat on a winter’s day. Gratitude makes you smile.
- Think happy thoughts: It’s impossible not to smile when you’re thinking about something happy like a child’s giggle, a friend’s joke, or your favorite food.
- Look for the light in everyone: Everyone has a light flickering deep within, waiting to burn brighter. Make it a challenge to ignite it. Sometimes a smile is all it takes to tweak the energy exchange between two people.
- Quit judging others: You don’t know what the person you just met is going through in their lives. People choose their own path of learning, and the most powerful and liberating thing you can do is respect that path. Always give others the benefit of the doubt.
A smile says, “I come in peace and love.” You may smile at someone and forget, but that simple smile could make someone’s day. It could even save a life.
Smiling is contagious. Not only does it make the recipients happy, and all the people they smile at happy, it also makes you happy.
Smiling is good for your health. It lowers your heart rate and boosts your immune system. It breaks the ice of stress.
Smile and watch the world yield to you. Light up a stranger’s face.